We'll miss Renae during the July book group, as she'll be out of town. Lucky for us she sent her notes for us to enjoy. Hopefully we can record the discussion for her to enjoy when she returns.
Bold Spirit
Advents in Helga's life caused her to take unplanned roads
1. At 2, Father died
Raised by a single parent
2. At 7, mother married wealthy merchant
She could go to private school, she learned English
3. At 11 her family moved to USA
Had every advantage in a wealthy home
4. At 15 She became pregnant...married a Swedish Man
They moved to prairie...lived in a sod house
5. Moved to Spokane
Injured in a fall, sued city, had newly developed surgery
6. In danger of house foreclosure
Walked across America, received accolades, was going to write a book for $10,000
7. Two children died while she was gone
Family, Community angry...never forgave her
She Was Silenced
Powerful Comments:
"Honey, be sure to take care of this story for me" (told to her granddaughter)
Elementary School Experience
Teacher taught Jonah and the Whale. Helga found out the opening was too small for a man to go through. Told the teacher. Teacher said "Don't you know Helga that anything is possible with God?"
Helga lived by that motto.
Thoughts of the Era:Women's biology made her susceptible to disease and ill health.
Page 83. "Long walks are to be avoided"
Page 97. Women's work is "to soften and refine men.
Men living without you by themselves become savage and sinful.
Page 106. LaGrande, OR Tramp followed and threatened them for several days.
They shot him in the leg.
Page 119. "Until woman is allowed to have ankles, there is no hope for her brain."
Helga was prejudiced against Indians and she taught her children to also be prejudiced.
She hired and Indian woman to wash clothes. She wouldn't allow her children outside.
Her trip taught her that she was wrong in her prejudices.
I love the hero in the book who hid the 2 scrapbooks of newspaper articles...The Daughter in Law
I was heartbroken for the family when diphtheria struck...two children died..the rest of the children were quarantined in a cold outbuilding ..couldn't even have a blanket for fear it would spread the disease.
A tragedy was that the daughters burned their mother's possessions...especially her writings
I'm glad the author added the chapter about how and why stories are silenced
I am sad I won't be able to be there. I would love to hear your thoughts.
Renae